There's only one person I can be snappy to, for no reason at all. That would be my boyfriend. Between the two of us, we know that we can throw attitude with no consequences at all. With A, it's another story. That girl throws attitude like it was free.
So I asked her where she went in the morning, and she got all irritated. I've told myself this before - don't ask about her life. I can't help it though! I live with the person, and it's not like I asked in an offensive manner. I absolutely dislike this one quality about her. I can deal with the OCD, the negativity, the lack of maintaining friendships, but the attitude has got to go. To me, there's no reason to snap. It's hurtful. If you share so many aspects of your life with another person, what's wrong with asking where they went in the morning? If one day, she goes missing, should I just not care?
From this moment, I vow never, ever to ask about her weekend plans, what she did, where she went - nothing. If privacy is what she wants, privacy is what she'll get.
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